Who should I talk to about Advanced Care Planning?

It is important to think carefully about who you need to include in these conversations. It is a good idea to include your GP or any other medical professionals, such as consultants for various conditions. They will be able to give you an overview from a medical perspective about the kinds of care and support that might be available and appropriate to your specific health needs. If you have a Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA) for Health and Welfare you should let them know that you have created an Advance Statement and/or Advance Directive. It's a good idea to share these with them so they can act appropriately on your behalf. You might want to include your loved ones, family, or close friends in these discussions. It can sometimes feel difficult to start these conversations because people don’t like to think about our loved ones becoming unwell. You can let them know that this is important to you and that if they are not ready to discuss this now, that you would like to put a date in the diary to have the conversation. Creating an Advance Care Plan can actually be a gift to our loved ones as it takes away any burden of responsibility or guilt they may feel if they are asked to help make a decision about our care. Important note: Unless you have an LPA for Health and Welfare, no-one has a legal right to be included in conversations about your care. Doctors and medical teams may ask family for their input to help them make a ‘best interests’ decision, but they don’t have to and they don’t have to abide by what the family ask.

The difference between an Advance Statement and an Advance Directive

An Advance Statement is a way to document your wishes and preferences. It may include such things as: Where you would like to be cared for What your routine looks like What you enjoy doing/don’t enjoy Food and drink likes/dislikes (such as how you take your tea or coffee, or that you enjoy a nightcap before bed!) How your personal beliefs impact your life and care Who you would like to be consulted about your care Any visitors you would like/not like Music/tv choices etc. An Advance Directive to Refuse Treatment (sometimes called a Living Will) is a legally binding document in England, Wales and Northern Ireland (as long as it meets certain criteria which means it is valid and applicable) To be valid an Advance Directive must: Be made by an adult (i.e. 18+) with mental capacity Clearly explain the treatments to be refused and the situations in which those refusals apply Include a sentence which states that your decisions apply even if your life is at risk Be signed and witnessed. It will not be found valid if there is evidence to suggest that you have been pressured to make the Advance Directive or if you have done anything which goes against what is written in the Directive. An Advance Directive becomes applicable if: You lack the mental capacity to make the decision in question It clearly applies to the situation you are in and the treatment you are being offered There is no evidence or reason to suggest that you have changed your mind since the decision was made. This is where you would state the treatments you do not consent to and the situations in which those decisions apply, for example, decisions about treatment if you develop dementia, a brain injury, or a disease of the central nervous system – you might decide to refuse all life sustaining treatment if you are persistently anxious or agitated, or you are no longer able to interact with others, but you would wish to be given all medical treatment to alleviate pain or distress, or anything that is aimed to ensure your comfort. Important note: An ADRT is NOT the same as a Do Not Attempt Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation (DNACPR). A DNACPR is a form completed by a doctor to state that CPR is not to be attempted because it is inappropriate (e.g. it is unlikely to succeed and may cause more harm). An ADRT is a document you complete yourself to refuse any medical treatment you indicate. Creating an Advance Care Plan can seem daunting. It might be difficult to get your head around all the types of situations and treatments you need to think about for an Advance Directive. Thankfully there are organisations out there that can help, some even have a guide you can follow online which will then help you to complete and ADRT at the end.

What to do before beginning your Advanced Care Planning journey

Start with your values. Most of the decisions we make about our care are based on the values we hold. It can therefore be really helpful to spend some time working out what your values are. Have a conversation with your loved ones. Find out if they have any thoughts on the subject or whether they are ready to do their own Advance Care Planning. Consider talking to your GP to see if there is any other support you can access locally while going through the process of Advance Care Planning.

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