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Telephone befriender

Befriending volunteer
Flexible days and times
Date posted27 June 2024
Closing date31 March 2026
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Volunteer as a telephone befriender and help reduce loneliness for older people

Are you looking for a flexible and meaningful way to volunteer from home? Become a telephone befriender and help tackle loneliness among older people in your community. Many older adults go days or even weeks without a friendly voice. Your regular phone call could be the highlight of their week.

As a telephone befriending volunteer, you’ll be matched with an older person and give them a friendly call each week. You’ll chat about shared interests, listen, offer emotional support, and help them feel more connected to the world around them. It’s a simple way to make a big difference.

Why telephone befriending matters

Social isolation and loneliness can have serious effects on the mental and physical health of older people. A regular conversation can lift someone’s mood, boost their confidence, and even improve their wellbeing.

Volunteering as a telephone befriender means you will:

  • Help an older person feel valued and less isolated
  • Make a real difference to someone’s life from the comfort of your own home
  • Develop communication and active listening skills
  • Gain experience that’s useful both personally and professionally
  • Build rewarding, intergenerational friendships
  • Feel a strong sense of purpose and connection to your community.

How much time do I need to give?

We ask for a minimum commitment of one hour per week for at least six months. All calls are made over the phone and can be scheduled at a time that works for both of you.

This is a flexible volunteer role you can do from home, making it ideal if you have limited time or want to fit volunteering around work or other commitments.

What support will I get?

You won’t be doing this alone. We’ll support you every step of the way. You’ll have:

  • A dedicated local coordinator to match you with someone and provide guidance
  • Regular check-ins to see how things are going
  • Access to online volunteer training, resources, and peer support
  • Reimbursement of any agreed out-of-pocket expenses.

About you

To be an effective volunteer telephone befriender, it helps to have a caring and dependable nature, along with the ability to build trust over the phone. The role involves offering companionship and emotional support, so the following qualities are especially important:

  • Good communication skills - able to listen actively and speak clearly while building rapport over the phone
  • Empathy and understanding - sensitive to the feelings and experiences of others without being judgemental
  • Reliability and commitment - consistent in making regular calls and dependable in keeping to agreed times
  • Patience and sensitivity - comfortable with silence or repetition and able to respond gently to emotional cues
  • Discretion and confidentiality - trustworthy with personal information and aware of safeguarding responsibilities
  • Emotional resilience - able to manage your own emotions and seek support when needed
  • A genuine interest in people - warm, curious and willing to engage meaningfully in conversation

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